Support Through Fertility Treatment in Laos

Support through fertility treatment in Laos is important to understand. The best support for a woman who is going through an IVF cycle is her husband. The IVF journey is exciting and exhausting at the same time. The process is more physically demanding for a woman than for a man. When a woman lacks a supportive husband, it is almost impossible for her to sustain her energy and enthusiasm during the extremely draining IVF process. What can a husband do to make the process easier for his wife? What does a wife expect from her husband when undergoing an IVF cycle?

Laos Fertility would like to offer these tips on how a husband should support his wife during this trying time. It’s important to understand how you can support your wife during this emotional and often long and difficult time that each of you will go through.

Infertility is a shared dilemma

IVF in Laos can be a very stressful process for those choosing to undergo this procedure. It can be very cost and time intensive, and the IVF cycle itself is often very uncertain. Prospective fathers may become stressed and even feel frustrated, as they feel they do not have any control over their situation. Husbands should keep in mind that this is also an extraordinarily trying situation for their wives, who must face the physical trials of undergoing IVF. Do your best to avoid blaming your spouse. Your spouse should not have to feel guilty due to her infertility. This is can be a highly stressful time for any couple with infertility problems, and it is best to avoid straining your relationship. Use this as an opportunity to strengthen the bonds of your marriage, and be emotionally supportive and positive to your wife.

Become actively involved in the IVF process

in Laos The best support a husband can provide his spouse is to be genuinely interested in the entire process. Simple actions, such as remembering your wife’s medicine routine and reminding her to take her pills or accompanying her on clinic visits, can not only be helpful to your wife, but show her that you care. Some men feel that their only role in the IVF process is to be a “sperm donor”, and remain detached from the procedure completely. This is the most common reaction to IVF men exhibit, and often leads to their wives believing that their husbands simply do not care about the trials they are undertaking to have a baby. It is crucial, for the health of your marriage and success in building your family, to support your wife and make her feel valued. Use this time to deepen your emotional connection with your spouse.

Communicate, communicate, communicate!

Communication is widely regarded as the most important element of any relationship. We realize that IVF in Laos can be a very draining process for prospective couples, and would like to remind you that spouses who can communicate effectively fare much better in times of hardship than those who cannot. Many women undergoing IVF treatments have no idea how their husbands are feeling, because, quite simply, most men have a hard time expressing their emotions. They do not want to appear weak or fragile in the face of a difficult situation. If a husband shares his emotional pains with his wife, she can comfort him, and feel as though she is not the only one with fears and doubts. The two can strengthen one another, and reinforce one another’s confidence in the procedure and their ability to raise a family together. Your spouse will not expect concrete solutions, she merely seeks a shoulder to cry on. Remind your wife that, should an IVF cycle fail in Laos, it is not her fault, and that even though it can be emotionally hurtful, the pain will not last long. It is critical to avoid staying silent about your own insecurities, or trying to block them out with distraction. Sharing your insecurities with your wife will allow her to comfort you as well, and open your pathways of communication substantially.

Express your love for your wife

We recommend that the best time to show your spouse that you care is during the difficult moments of your life together. Many husbands may emphasize with their wife’s emotional pains during IVF treatments, but may not know how to express what they feel. Something as simple as a bouquet of flowers, a thoughtful card, a surprise meal, or a sincere compliment will substantially brighten your spouse’s mood and remind her how much you love her. A little help in her daily household chores can also show that you really care. Such actions can also demonstrate that you are emotionally strong and capable of providing for her in multiple ways, even during these stressful times.

Learn together

The more a couple understands about the IVF procedure, the less stressful it will be for them. Set time aside to research the IVF process, along with its risks and benefits. Learning together can provide a unique bonding experience, as well as the obvious benefit of educating the both of you on this life-changing procedure. Do not discourage your wife from researching the intricacies of what she is undergoing; there is a distinct difference between obsessing and learning. Acquiring such knowledge will give your wife the confidence of knowing all is going well with her IVF cycles, and that she is not the only woman to undergo such trials. If trouble should arise, she will be allowed to emotionally cope better with an understanding of what has happened. Only once a couple is educated on the IVF process can they have a rational, productive discussion about what they have undertaken. This will also allow the both of you to communicate more effectively with your doctor.

Do not allow others to interfere

Laos Fertility realizes that it can be extremely tempting for couples to tell those around them—friends and family, every detail of their IVF process. This is an entirely justified response—after all, the prospect of having a child, to both couples who have struggled with infertility, and those who have not, can be very exciting! However, it is crucial that husband and wife do not allow others to interfere in their decision to undergo IVF treatments in Laos. Unsympathetic, or even well-meaning, friends and family can add a lot of pressure and stress to the IVF process. Couples should not feel as if they have to answer to nosy in-laws, or acquaintances with prying eyes! The IVF process is incredibly emotionally challenging, and this added stress from friends and family is simply not necessary. Many do not understand the process scientifically. It is hard to explain this to them and clear their unreasonable doubts and fears. Well-meaning friends and family may warn your wife against eating certain (most likely harmless) foods, climbing stairs, or lifting even the lightest of objects. Such misinformation and constant pestering will merely add to the high level of stress your wife is already coping with, and continually remind her of the embryos in her womb. You and your wife have very different relationships between your in-laws and your biological parents. Your wife may have more liberty to tell her own parents not to bother her about her IVF treatments, but well-meaning in-laws may blame her if an IVF cycle were to fail. This is a very important situation that the both of you should discuss with your respective parents to avoid ruining the relationship between your families.

Your wife may be emotionally vulnerable during this time

The drugs used in IVF treatments will alter your wife’s hormone levels, creating a metaphorical “hormone roller coaster” inside her body. Such rapid changes may lead to increased rates of depression and anxiety in women. Your wife may experience crying spells, sudden, irrational anger, or high levels of nervousness during this time. The best thing a husband can do in these situations is to console her, and remind her that everything will be alright in the end. In the case of an argument, he should choose to be ‘kind’ over being ‘right’, for the sake of their relationship.

Understand your wife’s obsessions

During the IVF process, you may begin to feel as if your wife has completely changed. Instead of doing things she used to enjoy, she seems interested solely in sitting in front of a computer, researching pregnancy symptoms and desperately trying to find any indication she may be pregnant. She may become lost in her own thoughts and dreams, and emotionally retract from her husband. Most men would find this unnerving, and struggle to find a way to deal with such behavior. It is important to remind your wife that the two of you have a life together, and that stressing out about the IVF treatments in Laos may hinder implantation of the embryos. Trying to criticize her for being too emotional or sensitive will just add to her stress levels. Repeatedly accusing your spouse of obsessing during the IVF process or saying that her way of dealing with the IVF process is ‘crazy’ will interfere with her way of coping and might leave her totally anxious and depressed. Allowing her to obsess a bit will actually hope her cope with the IVF process!

Take it easy

Husbands may become extremely over-protective of their wives during the last stages of their IVF treatment. Some may attempt to limit their wife’s activities, to the point where they may not even be allowed to get out of bed or drive a car. However, rather than making your wife feel safe and cared for, this extreme behavior can make your wife feel uncomfortable and less of an adult. Once the embryos are inside the uterus, nothing she does will affect the chance of implantation. If the embryo is healthy and there is sufficient uterine receptivity, the embryo will implant. Otherwise, nothing a husband orders his wife to do will affect the implantation. Obsessing over your wife’s safety will only place unnecessary stress on her, and cause her to be uncomfortable. Allow her to go about her normal day-to-day routine, as if she was not undergoing the IVF treatments. Husbands should also avoid unreasonable questions such as “Do you feel pregnant yet?” or “Do you feel any different?”

Support through fertility treatment in Laos is important in making the process go as smoothly as possible for the both of you. With some luck, you will get to realize your dreams and we are here to help make that happen.

Our team in Laos

We have a fully staffed and very capable team in Laos including a Patient Manager, recruiters, and nurses who care for our surrogate mothers. Feel free to explore our website. You will find extremely informative information on our services. If you have any questions, feel free to contact us anytime. You can call us at 1.949.783.6827. You can also send us an e-mail at info@laosfertility.com or contact us here https://laosfertility.com/contact-us/

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